oh jonconley.. thank you so much for such an intelligent post! i won't even reply to damaris because i don't think anyone could say what you said any better. i agree with you completely.
ahh.. but i must thank damaris for making me laugh.. i really haven't laughed that hard in awhile.. i needed it. thanks!

fleshy
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