thanks for nothing!

Looking at internet porn and masturbating isn't exactly cheating...Unless you're in somewhere like Iran where they can actually cut off your right hand I presume.

I mean, you could cut off his right hand too, but that would cause some problems. My sister tried to catch my brother-in-law by looking at the history, so I just showed him how to clear the history all the time. I'm now formally ashamed that I even mentioned anything helpful.

Sorry kym.

kymbreleigh

Look I know this situation by heart. Do you realy think you can control what your man looks at? Do you realy want to. You see a hot man, you tink to yourself... The guy is cute. He is the same way. By checking up on him you are spying on the man you love. By doing this you are not trusting him to love you. Lust is lust. Men get turned on by naked picture, women it is more on an emotional level. Don't let it get to you.

I wana know why a chick can go get back massages, foot rubs and shit like that and guys get bitched out for looking at porn. If it realy bothers you so bad.... Search for naked dudes and leave it in the history. I think you will find your man to be cooler about it than you are acting.

lady i must say, my parent have tryed to block me have tryeied to keep me off the comp, it doesnt stop me, jsut give in... your kids are gona look at porn and shit and theres really nothin u can do, and really u shoudln bother trying cause its normal.... unless of course there looking at shit like osama's reqruitment page on the web....lol

*shrug*

Help one side or help the other side. Whether one side is good or bad... Help the hacker break into a network, or help the security guy protect his network... Or help some kid look at porn freely on the internet, or help the parent monitor the computer against such actions... I don't see a difference. I see two sides in a struggle with very personal, arguably legit, reasons to combat the other. Who are we to say which is the good side? Or who has the more sound reasons? We are biased, and we do not know what is best for every situation - much less so when we're not even involved in the situation and don't even know SECOND-HAND what the situation is. Freedom of knowledge is a two-sided coin. Freedom of knowledge is the only goal have. Abuse of knowledge is pretty much all I try to avoid when determining what help I should or should not give.

IMHO spying on your husband's habits is destructive on a relationship which may be perfectly healthy otherwise - but spying on your children's habits may provide valuable info in molding their lives in healthy ways.

I think you should get a system monitor possibly from http://www.iopus.com and installed it with the full knowledge of your husband.

P.S. Consider this bit of strange advice. Sometimes it is best that if your husband DID cheat on you - that you never know about it. Mistakes can happen, and it would be a crying shame if you destroy an otherwise happy marriage by finding out. If you ask around you'll find that in several long-lasting happy marriages one or the other has cheated on their partner. It may still be a secret! Don't destroy the chance for such happiness.

heh, 40% of all women cheat on their husbands befor age 40. Scary hu?

BTW install net nanny, or any other progy like that, or a monitor program and your kids WILL end up on sites like this and WILL outsmart you in the long run.

I'm probably one of the few guys who'd forgive my girl for cheating on me. But it really depends on if she's sorry. I go by a 2 strikes you're out system. I don't agree with how people all freak out if their partner had sex with another person - even if they were repentent and they really did love you and not them. I mean sure, it would upset me, but I would still be reasonable.

Kym dont let these weirdo's get you down.....this is what they do the majority of the time any ways.....all they do is b!+ch and complain about we tah did things and most of the time they dont complete the argument which was brought up in the first place....I mean look at this topic....you asked "What do I do to find out every place my pc has been?" and they all start jumping in and talking about something else...some thing that you didnt even ask about. The majority of these guys are judgemental, horney and liars....except for gizmo (probably because I have a..???..on him)
This is a NEWBIE'S forum guys....lets try to help and not criticize, judged or make them feel stupid for asking......after all we 'ARE' NEWBIE'S!

Fine.. here is my advise. Look up the term Keylogger. That is your answer.

It all makes sense now...sort of. It is obvious she was talking about looking at porn and shit, the current owners thing threw me off. Then when she said "im talkin harddrive" i don't even know what to think. I don't know about that chick though...to me it seems more likely that it is just some girl that doesn't want her parents to find out she was looking at porn. not calling her a liar, just saying. crazy cookes.

and oh yeah, hey giz do you think you could give those guys with the gay javascript and flash shit ads a shove? I think they are going a little slow, it has been awhile since you said you emailed them about it. you know, the fucking gum ball shit. ktnx

I got a reply, its fine, leave them alone.

(totally out of topic: I know ya probably dont give a ----, but you guyz just grew a hell of a lot in my eye)

Why is that? Cause we don't wana help some chick spy on her husband? I am wondering why you say that.