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Lol sweet

is it safe for me to open at work?

yeh

lmao!!!!

That dude is messed up

I know some of your pws, but you're me friend now so no need to own you...

shhh lol

you did tell me once...I couldn't find a pen fast enough hahaha! well someone else has to edit it for me cuz I can't after 30 mins or whatever cuz I don't have the special wand crammed up me bum.

...and yes I do date some dumb men, hence the problem. They all think they are really smart though. I'm just waiting for my handsome little computer geek to be single again, err I mean a single puter geek to come along and sweep me off my feet...

done.

/me hands on hips


did you really just call me foolish?

yahoo pulled the whole acct...hehehe

Girlie, what was my initial statementg about this guy? Oh yeh, it was "This guy is a moron, you're just goinna end up [censored] yourself over again" and you're all "you don't even know him, you have no right to say that"...

Question, who was right as always?

and he just had to throw the i told you so in lol

Yup ... Maybe someday she'll listen

maybe, what was your first statement about our little 4 lettered friend beginning with an r and ending with an s? cuz I don't remember, it may come in useful. Though to be honest, I wouldn't count on me ever taking your advice....I never do. I do what I want and learn the hardway. speaking of which, [censored] [censored] quit his job so he wouldn't have to pay child support, there's another winner for ya.

he quit his job... what a loser...no offence but he deserves to have your kids hate his guts with a vengence...

Hey, not my problem he's a looser and went back to his wife lol...

BTW, you can take him to court for evasion of child support... You can easily prove that he quit JUST BECAUSE of child support and they'll deduct from his bank account... It's pretty simple, just have a lawer supena his payment records from his old job and show he got a raise and when you where prepairing to go to court he quit so he wouldn't have to pay... bye bye bank account...

you are assuming he has money in his bank account...


...I may or may not have access to his account and his online banking and he may or may not have a current balance of $17.20 and may or may not have not had a deposit since November 23rd.

well there are some records somewhere, he has to supply his account to cash any check, if his name has ever been on an account or on a check there is a paper trail, not to mention the cash is FROM a place and they have to legally keep records.

Cashing a check doesn't post to the account as it's not a deposit, but records are still kept at the bank.

sweetheart, you are missing the point, he is not working. there is no check to cash.

if he is working, then it is under the table...but I don't think he is, because he would have deposited money in his bank account to pay his bills considering he has no car and has no other means of paying bills other that a check.

The money is somewhere, likely they have an acct together or something... cash just doesn't dissapear, it's somewhere...

Also, if it was under the counter, and you can prove it (which is rather easy) then you can also get the place of employment in trouble for assisting him in avoiding paying child support.

he just quit dec 5th, he has no money.

he has no other accounts because he owes two different banks money and with the new chexsystem no one will open an account for him, so that's out too.

He is a lazy [censored], he wouldn't have worked at all if I hadn't made him. And I still had to be his mom everyday, set the alarm and wake him up, cook him breakfast, and make his lunch. ...boy I don't really miss those days, I gotta say.

The account may not be in his name BUT his CHECKS could be cashed there; extremely common; likely he's depositing his checks in his hoes account; aka a paper trail; do some [censored] thinking and [censored] get a backbone for once...

A) I have backbone...how many people on here will mouth back to you? None that I've seen, that's why you love AND hate me, and you know it.

B) I was with the man for 6 years, I was married to him for nearly 3...I think I know him a little better than you. He is not working. He's a lazy son of a [censored], he will not get a job until he absolutely has to. If he had money, it would be going into his account at some point. He hasn't had a car since last summer, he blows his money on stupid [censored], and therefore didn't have the money to get it fixed. He lives in BFE. The ONLY way he has to pay his bills is by checks...from that account. When he has money, I will know it, because he will be depositing the money into his account to pay his bills. Lastly, he doesn't have a hoe. Didn't I ever tell you that story? The whole thing was apparently made up to make me jealous...ya see how well that worked don't ya. The emails? HE sent them. The whole "bun in the oven" thing...competely in his mind. I sent his sister an email and brought something about his pregnant girlfriend up and she is like "what are you talking about he hasn't been with ANYONE since you left him." So, I checked into it, called up his sister in law since she always liked me and her son hangs out with my ex all the time and she said the same thing.

He won't work until he can't live anymore. I don't even really care, [censored] him. I'll have his [censored] locked up, he's already about 2k behind, I'm not getting any money anyways, wtf do I care? The only thing I am worried about is him claiming the kids on the income tax return because that will [censored] me up. Legally he's not allowed to, they have never lived with him, but that doesn't mean he won't try.

Umm, if he's committing Social Security Fraud you can have him jailed quite quickly, my mom was for something along the same lines...

You claim your kids normally, if there is an investigation they'll see that the kids are with you and that he's the one being an idiot...