That's not how it works; any program that listens for a connection opens a port on your computer.

Sometimes, specific programs that open specific ports have flaws that allow for remote entry; rare, but it happens.

Now there are remote management programs which do this, such as PcAnywhere; but usually are somewhat secure.
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